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| Name | Juju |
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Let's talk about sex!
Yeah, I know: this is a first time on this blog!
Until lately, in sex, I tended more to a side than another. No, what I mean, is that I'm gay but that sexually, I preferred one thing to the other. Okay, let's stop beating around the bush: until recently, I was a big passive faggot. But loads of things happened... and I understood many things. By the way, I had a Scientific A-level, with Mathematics as my specificity.
Principle I. The natural tendancy
Everyone, especially gay men, especially, then, me (yes, this is when you have to laugh), has a sexual tendancy that I call "natural". The spontaneous encline to lean on one side rather than the other. The thing I realised is that this tendancy is not immobile. And it depends a lot on self esteem. I noticed that the more I esteemed myself, the more I tended to versatility, that is, when activity and passivity meet. Thus, if the variable Tn represents the natural tendancy, and Es, the self esteem, one can admit approximately that:
Tn = Es
When Tn is negative, the individual is passive, when Tn is positive, the individual is active and when Tn is equal or close to zero, then the individual is versatile. I read, I don't remember where, that most gay men end up being versatile.
Principle II. The relative tendancy
Now, the big piece of news is that the tendancy is not absolute. Indeed, according to the partner, one individual can lean to a side opposite to his natural tendancy. And this can be defined by the esteem one has for the other, and by the difference between one's self esteem and the esteem one has for the other. The more one esteems another, the more one wants them inside. If Tr is the relative tendancy, Es the self esteem and Ea, the esteem for another, then it gives something like:
Tr = Es - Ea
Principle III. The law of attraction
And all of this results in the law of attraction. Attraction is, in this theory, the whole of forces and their effects that enable a body to be attracted by another. From my very small experience, I understood that the attraction to someone else, here represented by A, could be defined by something close to that:
A = 1 / Tr
It's the relative tendancy reversed. The particularity of the reverse function is that it's got a singularity. Singularity is a concept that can be found in several mathematical and physical theories, like the Big Bang for example. Indeed, if the relative tendancy is equal to zero, which implies that the difference between self esteem and the other is null, then attraction is infinite.
| Name | Juju |
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| Age | 25 |
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| Lives in | London |

Comments
Unfortunately it is *so* inapplicable to heterosexual relationships...
@The6L20: Attention, debat! 1, ce n'est parce que les choses sont instables que les lois qui les regissent le sont! 2, modeliser les choses donnent une impression de previsibilite, de securite, ca rassure!
@Christophe: je ne suis pas d'accord. Il y a bien des mecs qui se font mettre des godes par leurs nanas! Ca pourrait meme expliquer pourquoi dans beaucoup societes, on a rabaisse les femmes: pour qu'elles aient moins d'estime personnelle et veuillent se faire penetrer! Pardon, je devie :)
J'ai besoin de cours de rattrapage !
Je disais ça parce que (très) souvent, il y a le cas du mec avec un égo surdimensionné, et qui accorde une estime quasi-nulle à toute femme avec qui il peut avoir une relation (= toutes_les_femmes - maman).
Dans cette situation donc, Tr est très élevé, et A est à un niveau extraordinairement bas. Pourtant l'attraction est bien là des deux côtés, et la relation peut même *durer* longtemps comme ça (mariage/enfants).
Moi aussi j'ai fait un bac S spé Maths, je me dit qu'on aurait appris bien plus de choses si nos exemples avaient été de cet acabit.
Mais à mon avis, il faudrait ajouter une constante multiplicative K (au hasard, hein, la lettre :p ) au niveau de Es, qui varierait en fonction de l'importance accordée à l'estime de soi. (Elle varierait en fonction des individus, mais serait constante pour un individu). Parce que selon les individus, la place de l'estime de soi est plus ou moins importante (enfin, d'après mes théories personnelles)
Ah tiens, je viens de penser à l'influence des saisons.
A = 1 / Tr B ou B est un paramètre fonction de la saison. C'est bien connu, le printemps pousse au vice ;)
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