5 reasons to turn down a shag [Gaganymede]

5 reasons to turn down a shag

30 January 2007 at 10:00
Love, sex, etc.

Last week in the Tube, a guy checked me out like crazy! To be sure, I returned his looks and nodded. He smiled. Then, he prepared to get off and winked at me. I was so hot! But I didn't go. Why?

Because he didn't know how hairy and not muscled I am and I was scared that when seeing my body, he kicks me out rather than anything else.
Because he was older than me and even if it's good sometimes, some other times, it's not at all, especially as I have been traumatised by my first boyfriend who was 7 years older than me and was so obsessed by youngsters that it was pathetic and insane.
Because when London Underground announced the train was going to another direction, he shook his head in the most ridiculous way ever.
Because I didn't know where thisguy was coming from and who knows if it was not some trap to beat me up, in that town where homophobic crimes are not that unusual.
Because I know how I become after a shag, given how scared of HIV I am, especially in that city where 1 gay man out of 8 is seropositive. If I am not capable of dealing with it, it is not worth it.